Foods You Should Never Give Up in the Name of a Diet

This is a list of foods I once thought were necessary to avoid for weight loss, and why I've learned that's not true.

Full-fat salad dressings

Vinaigrette dressings are better for you, but fat-free dressings are often made with high-fructose corn syrup and aren't as satiating. If you want bleu cheese dressing, have bleu cheese, especially if it's on a salad and not a platter of wings.

Bread

A girl cannot live on soups and salads alone. Bread, especially high-fiber, 100% whole wheat, is a necessary form of carbohydrate that the body craves.

Milk and cheese

Young women don't get enough calcium. And in a two-year study of women ages 18 to 31, researchers found that higher calcium intakes might reduce overall levels of body fat and slow weight gain for women in this age group. Women who consume calcium from dairy products, or who consume at least 1,000 milligrams per day, may reap the most benefits. So calcium supplements don't cut it. Also, women who consumed more than 1900 calories a day did not benefit.

Low-fat products are best. But let's face it, it's not practical to cut these treats out of our diets completely.

Unhealthy Thoughts about Food and Body Image

     I submitted a guest post on losing weight healthfully at College Candy today, and it got me thinking about the mindset that encourages a person to diet. If someone thinks that life will be better when he or she has lost weight, that signals an unhealthy attitude about food and body image. But when you're the one having the thoughts, sometimes it's hard to perceive when they've become unhealthy. 

     I've discussed the thin line separating dieting from an eating disorder before. The process doesn't occur overnight. For me, it happened step by step. Negative thoughts about my appearance led to dieting. Dieting led to constant restricting. Constant restricting led to perceptions of "good" and "bad" foods. 

     By the time I realized my diet was controlling my life, the thoughts that influenced me were so instilled in my mind and accepted as fact, I couldn't recognize how illogical they really were. I didn't realize how irrational they were until actually spoken aloud to someone else. Have you ever found yourself thinking any of the following statements?

     Everyone is this room is looking at me thinking that I'm fat.

     He would like me better if I lost weight.

     They're thinking that I shouldn't be eating this.

     He's looking at my (face, stomach, whatever body part) because he thinks it's fat. 

     No one else cares about what they eat as much as me.

     I don't want to go do something fun because I feel fat.

     If I lose weight, some part of my personality will change as well.

     If you've believed any of these ideas to be true, take a moment and imagine your best friend saying them to you. What is the likelihood of these thoughts being plausible? Is it really possible that everyone in the room is thinking that? Is it really true that no one else cares about food? Is your social life suffering because you don't want to be seen? 

     If your mindset mirrors this list, dieting won't make you feel better. Dieting is your effort to better yourself, and if the perceived excess weight is gone, poor self-esteem will still be there. Learn to love yourself, and it will be a natural progression to treat your body well.